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Step 1: Nutrition (Natural Treatment Protocols for 7 Hormonal Conditions)
Step 2: Self Acupressure & Yoga (4 Instructional Videos to Thicken the Uterine Lining)
Step 3: Mindfulness Meditation (2 Audio Meditations to Reduce Stress and Depression)
There is absolutely nothing wrong …
Of course, there is absolutely nothing wrong with your desire for a child.
It’s so human, to have some yearning in the heart, some longing for connection, to be met in presence, to be seen, to be heard, to be touched, to be held and to hold.
We are relational mammals.
While having the longing for a child is perfectly natural, the reality is that it is unlikely your longing is ever going to be fully met by anyone other than you.
Know that a child will sometimes be able to meet you, love you, to see you as you are, and provide what you long for.
When they do, give thanks.
And when they do not, give thanks for the opportunity to love yourself in a revolutionary new way.
Because child or no child, it is only you who can be seduced by the ancient conclusion of yourself as unworthy of love.
It is only you who can abandon yourself to another.
And it is only you who can wake up to the beauty of things – exactly as they are.
All my very best, always,
When my son was 3 years old, approx. one year after he acquired language, he asked me, “Why doesn’t Daddy love me?”
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The appearance of new ways of thinking and communicating, between 70,000 & 30,000 years ago, constitutes the Cognitive Revolution. These new ways of thinking and communication enabled humans to conquer the world.
THE MOST TRANSFORMATIVE tool I teach women who are having trouble conceiving or carrying to term is this:
Acknowledge the pain, the shame, the loss, the powerlessness, without needing it to go away (without aversion).
Your fertility story is the very foundation of the Mindful Fertility process. Even if you’ve done tons of therapy, as you pursue your longing for a child, as your vulnerability increases, as you heal, change your behavior, change your state of consciousness, at every new level of growth and expansion, it’s your fertility story that determines your “success” because the image of a successful cycle is held in your implicit memory – deep in your sub-conscious mind.
One of the very first psychological processes that gets triggered while trying to conceive is self-doubt.