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A Despair That Is Whole

by | Sep 12, 2017 | Mindfulness | 0 comments

On your journey to conceive you have no doubt become aware of at least one or two waves of despair rising and falling within you.

At times you feel down, hopeless, uninspired and unable to find any meaning.

Everyone around you is announcing pregnancies and you are thinking…

What is wrong with me?

There is a deeply embedded cultural fantasy that you shouldn’t feel depressed, that this sort of downheartedness while trying to conceive is a clear sign that you are doing something wrong, that you have failed and are flawed in some fundamental way.

I mean, a “spiritual” person wouldn’t feel depressed, right?

We seem to be quite confused about this.

But what if this despair were a legitimate experience?

What if in the totality of what you are, a wave or a period of “unhappiness” is just as authentic and genuine as a wave of “happiness?”

Love not only takes the form of flow, birth and so called “positive” feelings, but at times as the activity of death and deflation, reorienting old narratives so rebirth can occur.

This cycle is the essence of creativity!

And appears to be non-negotiable on the path of the heart and of becoming who you truly are.

While we don’t get to choose what exactly dances within us, we have some choice as to whether we will willingly participate – whether we greet each reality with self-aggression or kindness, whether we will dare to see death and deflation not as mistakes but as potential opportunities, even if we cannot, at this time, understand their guidance.

To open to life does not require that we like what is happening, love it, or even “accept” it.

It means that whether we like it or not, we take a moment to turn toward it and open to the possibility that it is purposeful.

What if this diagnosis, this pain, is intelligent and a forerunner of new life not an expression of pathology but of a non-conventional sort of grace?

This mindset shift is an essential part of what I teach you in The Mindful Fertility Journal.

It has lead to many long awaited rebirths and subsequent births.

I hope you’ll join us by purchasing the Mindful Fertility Journal today or learn more here.

All my very best, always,

Buffy

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